https://www.positiveparenting.com/parenting-question-and-answer/ Parenting, Parent Coaching, Child Behavior Fri, 27 Apr 2018 08:16:27 +0000 hourly 1 https://www.positiveparenting.com/parenting-question-and-answer/#comment-75624 Fri, 27 Apr 2018 08:16:27 +0000 http://positiveparenting.com/BePositive/?p=829#comment-75624 My wife has a child with another man. Our relationship is complicated because she cheated on him a long time ago with me and then i messed up went to jail for forty days roght after our wedding  (mind you she was with him for 10 years they had just broken up and she married me) and she cheated on me with him. Me and him tried to get along for the child but he had no respect. Always calling late at night, trying to get her to sleep with him again. Time passed and things got bad for me and i relapsed and got sent to jail. (She was pregnant with my son 100% sure hes mine). After she got pregnant she needed to let there daughter stay with his grandmother and he too was on the run from the law. I got sentenced to 18 months missed my sons birth. Broke my heart. Anyway i got out found out that he had been out of state the whole time because he was really really wanted (that too is 100%) but i found out they talked while i was in there up until i got out 15 months later and i changed the number and it stopped. We still dont have her daughter back but she believes its ok to talk to him about how she is doing and how his relationship is going. Is it ok for them to talk “if” he dont call his daughter and wont turn himself in so he can get it over with and be a dad. He has abandoned all responsibilitys to his daughter completely but still trys to talk to my wife and her excuse is well its my childs father and hes just trying to make sure im ok? My responce obviously is wow look what hes doing by not trying to be in her life and not wanting to either up to this point. Is it ok for her to talk to him because hes in another state so its not like they can do anything. My question is why is that ok? Why do i have to be ok with you guys talking about god knows what when you dont have his child living with you. He lives with his mother and he can talk to his daughter but doesn’t. Am i wrong for saying its highly disrespectful and i wont tolerate it? Am i wrong for asking her to tell him to stop calling? Should she be saying that to him anyway without me asking if shes in love with me, raising our son together and working on getting my step daughter back with us permenintly? Please help with your honest opinion.

]]> https://www.positiveparenting.com/parenting-question-and-answer/#comment-21 Tue, 22 Jan 2013 03:21:41 +0000 http://positiveparenting.com/BePositive/?p=829#comment-21 Your answer is very effective, which also help me to manage my son.But 5 no. suggestion is not clear for me.pls will you clarify this again ?

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