We are in desparate need of parenting skills. For one or the other reason, our children 6 and 4 just dont listen to us. For example, thry still dont eat on their own. Either one of us feed them or they remain hungry or just drink milk. Morning when time to brush teeth, it is another battle. Sitting in car without teasing each another is another example. Mostly, younger sibling follow bad behavior of elder one. Time out or corning does not work. We dont believe in physical punishment

Please Help.