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		By: Sean Smallwood		</title>
		<link>https://www.positiveparenting.com/more-redirecting-tantrums/#comment-24388</link>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2015 03:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.positiveparenting.com/more-redirecting-tantrums/#comment-27&quot;&gt;Tara Yelman&lt;/a&gt;.

As a parent of three children under the age of three this will come in very handy. Thanks!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.positiveparenting.com/more-redirecting-tantrums/#comment-27">Tara Yelman</a>.</p>
<p>As a parent of three children under the age of three this will come in very handy. Thanks!</p>
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		By: brenna		</title>
		<link>https://www.positiveparenting.com/more-redirecting-tantrums/#comment-28</link>

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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Mar 2013 00:22:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.positiveparenting.com/more-redirecting-tantrums/#comment-27&quot;&gt;Tara Yelman&lt;/a&gt;.

Let him have space to tantrum. It validates his feelings. It validates. Don&#039;t you feel the child is having a tantrum because he needs something from his own self or you emotionally? He is going through therapy. Let him be in his tantrum. Let him figure it out, but don&#039;t leave him. Be with him there. Let him have space. It validates his feelings. It validates. With redirection, you are invalidating his emotions and telling him he should not cry or be upset. It tells him, you cannot have feelings. I disagree with redirecting altogether. I feel it doesn&#039;t allow them to feel or express. Let people look or stare, this is your kid. If it is uncomfortable for you to watch them be upset, then be uncomfortable. It is sad to see, but it is SO necessary for development and totally normal. We should have more kids and adults crying in this world. Wouldn&#039;t it be nice to have some freedom to show emotion once in a while?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.positiveparenting.com/more-redirecting-tantrums/#comment-27">Tara Yelman</a>.</p>
<p>Let him have space to tantrum. It validates his feelings. It validates. Don&#8217;t you feel the child is having a tantrum because he needs something from his own self or you emotionally? He is going through therapy. Let him be in his tantrum. Let him figure it out, but don&#8217;t leave him. Be with him there. Let him have space. It validates his feelings. It validates. With redirection, you are invalidating his emotions and telling him he should not cry or be upset. It tells him, you cannot have feelings. I disagree with redirecting altogether. I feel it doesn&#8217;t allow them to feel or express. Let people look or stare, this is your kid. If it is uncomfortable for you to watch them be upset, then be uncomfortable. It is sad to see, but it is SO necessary for development and totally normal. We should have more kids and adults crying in this world. Wouldn&#8217;t it be nice to have some freedom to show emotion once in a while?</p>
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		By: Tara Yelman		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2013 19:25:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[What a neat way to phrase the question. Not giving them a question that requires a yes or no answer will is a great way to avoid those tantrums. Thanks for sharing!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a neat way to phrase the question. Not giving them a question that requires a yes or no answer will is a great way to avoid those tantrums. Thanks for sharing!</p>
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		By: kate		</title>
		<link>https://www.positiveparenting.com/more-redirecting-tantrums/#comment-26</link>

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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2013 00:52:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My child is 6 nearly 7 he has aspegers and the tantrums are bad all for the same reason that not getting his on way. I try to give him acceptable alternatives but if they are not to do with what he wants thats it. would love some help as I am struggling to be the best parent for him. cheers]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My child is 6 nearly 7 he has aspegers and the tantrums are bad all for the same reason that not getting his on way. I try to give him acceptable alternatives but if they are not to do with what he wants thats it. would love some help as I am struggling to be the best parent for him. cheers</p>
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